"So, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we’ll never know most of them. But even if we don’t have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them. The most important thing I realized lately is that painful breakups, unrequited love, shitty jobs, and the like, help us to build character. And that no matter how bad it feels, we are much better off because of it. I get it now; I didn't get it then. That life is about losing and about doing it as gracefully as possible… and enjoying everything in between. "
Learning to love and live life bit by bit everday.